"It's not an attitude of arrogance or pride, but of consistency. You will continue to love them, but from a different perspective, from a different level of understanding, comprehension, and awareness. It's the hardest thing you'll ever have to do in your life, and it will also be the most important: stop being attached to those who aren't ready to love you.
Stop having difficult conversations with people who don't want to change. Stop showing up for people who are indifferent to your presence. Stop giving your love and energy to people who aren't ready to love you. When you start showing up in your life completely and wholeheartedly, with joy, interest, and commitment, not everyone will be ready to meet you there.
That doesn't mean you have to change who you are. It means you have to cut yourself off from people who aren't ready to love you. The truth is, you're not for everyone, and everyone isn't for you. That's what makes it so special when you find the few people with whom you have a genuine friendship, love, or relationship: you'll know how precious it is because you've experienced what it's not like.
But the more time you spend trying to force someone to love you when they're not capable, the more time you'll be depriving yourself of that connection. It's waiting for you. There are billions of people on this planet, and many of them will meet you at their level, at the vibration of where they are, connecting with where they're going.
The most precious and important thing you have in your life is your energy. It's not your time that's limited, it's your energy. What you give each day is what will create more and more in your life. What you give your time to is what will define your existence.
Make your life a safe haven where only those who can care, listen, and connect are allowed in.” Text by Brianna Wiest
With much love and compassion on your healing journey
Lu del Mar – Regenerative Alchemy Coach
PS: Next Group March 19, Individual consultations, private message
